I'm still trying to figure out if being related to when you just want to be listened to and total silence when you'd like to be supported is a flaw in men.
Not that I don't do it myself frequently, but if you have a bf, should he relate to you on all levels like this?
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What do you mean by relate to?
But on the other thing- yes, guys tend to think of "listening to without judging" as "supportive". If you know the guy well, you'll distinguish the "oh god I'm so bored" look from the one that means "poor girl, I feel for her"... But most of the time they don't go all verbal and supportive like girls.